Is shyness genetic or learnt? Here is the Wikipedia description.

I remember as a child I went through phases! When I was very young, 1 to 4, I was definitely not shy. It was only when my next door neighbour challenged my behaviour for the first time, at around the age of 4.5 and shouted at me for playing in his garden that I lost my confidence and I wasn’t sure how to behave and what I was and wasn’t allowed to do! There was a conflict in me, before we moved to the new house I was encouraged to play anywhere I liked, everyone looked after everyone and I felt safe and confident playing in other peoples gardens. Now suddenly from my perspective as a child my entire world and boundaries had been shattered.

Now it’s quite obvious to me what happened and why for many years after that point I remained a shy and introvert person. I am sure you have a story to tell and if you think about it, can recall an event from your past that either triggered your shyness or contributed towards it.

How to Overcome Shyness?

If you think about it there are so many intertwining issues around the reasons why a person is shy; confidence, boundary issues, physical attributes, childhood experiences and perhaps even genetics. It’s a complicated ball of tightly bound string that we know needs unravelling but we don’t know if we are ready to do that right now. As a result most of us wait and carry on with our lives, living with a set of behaviours that are stopping us really enjoying and making the most of life, all this to feel comfortable and safe in our own little world.

The whole idea of unravelling such a traumatic ball of string is too daunting but something inside you has decided to investigate your issue and as a result you are reading this! What if I was to tell you that you didn’t have to start picking away at all the reasons why you are shy and discuss them with the world? What if I told you that there was a part of you that could do this for you without the need for you to think about who, what and why? At least not until you had resolved the problem and want to start looking back at it as a memory would you interested?

If you are interested I will explain how it would work and how we would achieve such a seemingly enormous and impossible feat! The answer to this and many other questions you have about your life is called the Higher Self. This is the part of you that will be able to do all this for you with very little effort on your part. All you have to do is follow a simple process and say a set of precisely worded commands out loud in the comfort of your own home in private and within a very short period of time things will change dramatically for you. Do you think you could do that? This is NOT a form of positive thinking where you say lots of positive affirmations all day long its more akin to reprogramming a computer.

If you think about it like this; you are a perfectly good computer with all the right hardware and your life experiences are the software that has programmed you. For whatever reason some of the programming was faulty and has created a small glitch in your system, all you need to do is run a software patch which will repair the glitch and you will be like a brand new super computer, which is exactly what you have always been.

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